{"id":77206,"date":"2024-06-30T10:01:25","date_gmt":"2024-06-30T07:01:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.haberegider.com\/blog\/?p=77206"},"modified":"2024-06-30T10:01:25","modified_gmt":"2024-06-30T07:01:25","slug":"26-cocuga-babalik-yapan-usta-oyuncu-tanulku-gunlerini-torunlariyla-geciriyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.haberegider.com\/blog\/26-cocuga-babalik-yapan-usta-oyuncu-tanulku-gunlerini-torunlariyla-geciriyor\/","title":{"rendered":"26 \u00e7ocu\u011fa &#8220;babal\u0131k&#8221; yapan usta oyuncu Tan\u00fclk\u00fc g\u00fcnlerini &#8220;torunlar\u0131yla&#8221; ge\u00e7iriyor"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>Evlat edinmeye cezaevinde kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 1970\u2019li y\u0131llarda karar veren ve 1981\u2019de ilk \u00e7ocu\u011funa \u201cbabal\u0131k\u201d yapan tiyatro ve sinema oyuncusu Turgay Tan\u00fclk\u00fc, yak\u0131n zamanda aralar\u0131na kat\u0131lan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ve \u201ctorunlar\u0131yla\u201d 101 ki\u015filik koca bir aileye ula\u015ft\u0131.<\/h4>\n<p>Usta oyuncu Tan\u00fclk\u00fc&#8217;n\u00fcn ilk \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla tan\u0131\u015fma hikayesi, 1970&#8217;li y\u0131llarda siyasi nedenlerden girdi\u011fi Ulucanlar Cezaevi&#8217;nde ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Tan\u00fclk\u00fc, cezaevinde g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u015fkencelerden dolay\u0131 \u00e7ocuk sahibi olam\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alintiIcon\" src=\"https:\/\/cdnassets.aa.com.tr\/assets\/newVersion\/images\/analiz.png\" \/><\/p>\n<div class=\"twitter-tweet twitter-tweet-rendered\"><iframe id=\"twitter-widget-0\" class=\"\" title=\"X Post\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/embed\/Tweet.html?creatorScreenName=https%3A%2F%2Ftwitter.com%2Fanadoluajansi&amp;dnt=false&amp;embedId=twitter-widget-0&amp;features=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%3D%3D&amp;frame=false&amp;hideCard=false&amp;hideThread=false&amp;id=1807141993048346701&amp;lang=en&amp;origin=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.aa.com.tr%2Ftr%2Fyasam%2F26-cocuga-babalik-yapan-usta-oyuncu-tanulku-gunlerini-torunlariyla-geciriyor%2F3261452&amp;sessionId=487128651baa19e387a529ca8a4fa1c5da583734&amp;siteScreenName=https%3A%2F%2Ftwitter.com%2Fanadoluajansi&amp;theme=light&amp;widgetsVersion=2615f7e52b7e0%3A1702314776716&amp;width=550px\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-tweet-id=\"1807141993048346701\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>Kendisi 6 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken babas\u0131n\u0131 kaybeden, baba \u00f6zlemine bir de \u00e7ocuk \u00f6zlemi eklenen Tan\u00fclk\u00fc, orada kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6nemde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir olaydan \u00e7ok etkileniyor ve cezaevinden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131ktan sonra 1981\u2019de babas\u0131ndan da izin alarak, m\u00fcebbet alan bir mahkumun \u00e7ocu\u011funa sahip \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p onu okutuyor.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.aa.com.tr\/uploads\/userFiles\/96f91bbd-282f-4a24-a12c-1b1092cfeb3b\/008_2024%2F06_Haziran%2F11_Haziran%2F09%2F20240629_2_64518783_102482322.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun hayat\u0131na dokunman\u0131n verdi\u011fi mutlulu\u011fu tadan Tan\u00fclk\u00fc ve her zaman destek\u00e7isi olan e\u015fi Zehra Tan\u00fclk\u00fc, art\u0131k annesi ve babas\u0131 cezaevinde kalan \u00e7ocuklar ile sokakta ya\u015fayan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ailesi olmaya karar veriyor.<\/p>\n<p>Tan\u00fclk\u00fc, tiyatro ve dizilerden kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 para ve e\u015finin maa\u015f\u0131yla bug\u00fcne kadar sahip \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 26 \u00e7ocu\u011fun farkl\u0131 illerde kiralad\u0131\u011f\u0131 evlerde bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flay\u0131p onlar\u0131 okutuyor. Tan\u00fclk\u00fc \u00e7ifti, ko\u015fulsuz sevgiyle b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fckleri, aralar\u0131nda iki savc\u0131 ve avukat bulunan evlatlar\u0131 ve torunlar\u0131yla toplam 101 ki\u015fiden olu\u015fan kocaman ailesiyle g\u00fcnlerini ge\u00e7iriyor.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.aa.com.tr\/uploads\/userFiles\/96f91bbd-282f-4a24-a12c-1b1092cfeb3b\/008_2024%2F06_Haziran%2F11_Haziran%2F09%2F20240629_2_64518783_102482324.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>&#8220;\u00c7ocuktaki foto\u011fraf benim kendi foto\u011fraf\u0131md\u0131&#8221;<\/h3>\n<p>Hayat\u0131n\u0131 ve ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 AA muhabirine anlatan usta oyuncu Turgay Tan\u00fclk\u00fc, ilk o\u011flunun \u015fimdi 45 ya\u015f\u0131nda oldu\u011funu ve Ankara&#8217;da ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n<p>O zamanlar o\u011fluyla ilgilenmekten b\u00fcy\u00fck mutluluk duydu\u011funu belirten Tan\u00fclk\u00fc, &#8220;Onu okuluna gidip al\u0131yordum, elinden tutuyordum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o benim de \u00f6zlemimdi. Babam yoktu. Ben hi\u00e7bir zaman babam\u0131n elini tutamad\u0131m. \u00c7ocuktaki foto\u011fraf benim kendi foto\u011fraf\u0131md\u0131. Asl\u0131nda ben kendime, kendi \u00f6zlemlerime iyilik yap\u0131yordum.&#8221; diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n<p>Hemen akabinde, anne veya babas\u0131 cezaevinde kalan 5 \u00e7ocu\u011fa daha babal\u0131k yapmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatan Tan\u00fclk\u00fc, \u015f\u00f6yle devam etti:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;K\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu d\u00fcnyam\u0131za geldi\u011fi g\u00fcn d\u00fcnyam\u0131z bamba\u015fka olmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. K\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu payla\u015f\u0131lamayacak kadar \u00f6zel. Onlar\u0131n okumalar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok istedim. Cezaevlerinde tiyatro yapmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. Orada bir s\u00fcr\u00fc \u00e7ocuk var. Onlardan almaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. Devlet, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 6 ya\u015f\u0131na kadar cezaevinde tutuyor sonra da kendi korumas\u0131na al\u0131yor. Biz o s\u00fcre\u00e7 i\u00e7erisinde ailelerle anla\u015f\u0131p e\u015fimle okumalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131yoruz. Bak\u0131rk\u00f6y Kad\u0131nlar Cezaevinde tiyatro oynam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Bir han\u0131m arkada\u015f bebe\u011fini havaya kald\u0131rd\u0131 &#8216;hocam bu \u00e7ocu\u011fu sana do\u011furdum&#8217; dedi. En son ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m ufak \u00e7ocu\u011fum o. Sonras\u0131nda sokaktan \u00e7ocuklar almaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. Ka\u011f\u0131t toplayan, tinerci \u00e7ocuklardan evlatlar\u0131m olu\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131 ve n\u00fcfusumuz giderek artt\u0131.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.aa.com.tr\/uploads\/userFiles\/96f91bbd-282f-4a24-a12c-1b1092cfeb3b\/008_2024%2F06_Haziran%2F11_Haziran%2F09%2F20240629_2_64518783_102482325.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>&#8220;Onlardan istedi\u011fimiz tek \u015fey okumalar\u0131&#8221;<\/h3>\n<p>Tan\u00fclk\u00fc, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na ev kiralay\u0131p, bak\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 belirterek &#8220;Bizim de evimiz yok, biz de kiraday\u0131z. \u00d6dedikten sonra her ev senin. \u00c7ok mutluyuz. Onlardan istedi\u011fimiz tek \u015fey, okumalar\u0131.&#8221; dedi.<\/p>\n<p>Yard\u0131m etmenin sadece \u00e7ocu\u011fun karn\u0131n\u0131 doyurmak olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, o \u00e7ocu\u011fun ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ok\u015faman\u0131n as\u0131l mesele oldu\u011funu ifade eden Tan\u00fclk\u00fc, \u015f\u00f6yle konu\u015ftu:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Koruyucu aile ol&#8217; demek bana g\u00f6re l\u00fckse ka\u00e7\u0131yor. Neye g\u00f6re korumak? \u0130smi de\u011fi\u015firse sahiplenmek ad\u0131na m\u00fckemmel bir \u015fey. Sokakta bir s\u00fcr\u00fc evlat var. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131mdan mezun olanlar, i\u015f g\u00fc\u00e7 sahibi olanlar, yuva kuranlar d\u00f6n\u00fcp arkas\u0131na bak\u0131yor ve arkadan gelen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za da onlar sahip \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Bu, bir zincir. Koruyucu ailelikte de bir zincir olmal\u0131. Soka\u011fa at\u0131lan \u00e7ocuklar da bir anne babadan gelme. K\u00f6t\u00fc niyetli ki\u015filer bunlar\u0131 kullan\u0131yor. O aradaki u\u00e7urumu acizane, kar\u0131mla beraber kapatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. Eskiden ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131mdan dolay\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fum olmuyor. Onun i\u00e7in d\u0131\u015far\u0131daki her \u00e7ocuk benim i\u00e7in kutsal. Onlar\u0131n a\u011flamalar\u0131, g\u00fclmeleri her bak\u0131mdan benim i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00f6zel. Yaradan&#8217;a te\u015fekk\u00fcr ediyorum hep b\u00f6yle bir \u015feyi bize k\u0131smet etti\u011fi i\u00e7in.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ailesini 6 \u015eubat depremlerinde kaybeden 4 ya\u015f\u0131nda bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funun da oldu\u011funu anlatan Tan\u00fclk\u00fc, &#8220;K\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z hala annesini bekliyor. Di\u011ferleri oynarken o oturuyor. &#8216;K\u0131z\u0131m hadi oynasana&#8217; diyorum, &#8216;yok annem gelecek&#8217; diyor. Bir tek onu \u00e7\u00f6zemiyorum.&#8221; dedi.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.aa.com.tr\/uploads\/userFiles\/96f91bbd-282f-4a24-a12c-1b1092cfeb3b\/008_2024%2F06_Haziran%2F11_Haziran%2F09%2F20240629_2_64518783_102482327.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>&#8220;Benim desturum sevgi, verebildi\u011fim kadar sevgi&#8221;<\/h3>\n<p>Tan\u00fclk\u00fc, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n hepsinin e\u015fine kendisine &#8220;anne&#8221; ve &#8220;baba&#8221; diye hitap etti\u011fini belirterek s\u00f6zlerini \u015f\u00f6yle s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fc:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ufaklar bana &#8216;dede&#8217; demeye ba\u015flad\u0131. E\u015fim Zehra&#8217;ya \u00e7ok \u015fey bor\u00e7luyum. E\u015fim olmasayd\u0131 ben bunlar\u0131 yapamazd\u0131m. Onun da y\u00fcre\u011fi \u00e7ok farkl\u0131d\u0131r, benden daha farkl\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar anne kokusunu \u00f6zl\u00fcyor. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m benim kar\u015f\u0131ma ge\u00e7ip, Zehra&#8217;ya da dokunarak konu\u015furlar. Dokunma duygusu, babal\u0131k ve annelik demek. Oyuncu arkada\u015flar\u0131m &#8216;para verelim \u00e7ocuklara harca&#8217; diyor. Hay\u0131r gidip onunla oturmal\u0131, ekme\u011fini payla\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n. \u00c7ocu\u011fun \u00f6zlem duydu\u011fu bu. \u00d6nemli olan sevgi. Bu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n sevgiye ihtiyac\u0131 var. Ailede sevgiyi g\u00f6rmeyen \u00e7ocuk, kendi kurdu\u011fu yuvada sevgiyi kuramaz.<\/p>\n<p>Bayramlarda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ailelerine g\u00f6ndermek istiyorum. \u00dc\u00e7 g\u00fcn sonra &#8216;bizi gel al&#8217; diye ar\u0131yorlar. Mutluyuz. Bayramlar\u0131, \u00f6zel g\u00fcnleri o \u00e7ocuklarla payla\u015fabildi\u011fimiz i\u00e7in \u00e7ok mutluyuz. B\u00fcy\u00fckler geldi, gelemeyenlerle g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u00fc konu\u015ftuk. Yozgat&#8217;ta okuyan evlatlar\u0131m var, 3 k\u0131z karde\u015f. B\u00fcy\u00fcklere &#8216;Babam bir \u015fey laz\u0131m m\u0131?&#8217; diye soruyorum &#8216;yok babam&#8217; diyorlar. En k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne sordu\u011fumda &#8216;sen gel&#8217; diyor. Bamba\u015fka bir d\u00fcnya. Onun i\u00e7in herkes, her \u015feye sevgi g\u00f6stermeli. Benim desturum sevgi, verebildi\u011fim kadar sevgi. E\u015fimin de benim de mutlulu\u011fumuz bu. \u0130kisini de onlarda g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. 10 torunum var. Onlarda annelerinin ve babalar\u0131n\u0131n kokusu var. Her \u015fey insan kokusu ve dokusudur. Bizim yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bu.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.aa.com.tr\/uploads\/userFiles\/96f91bbd-282f-4a24-a12c-1b1092cfeb3b\/008_2024%2F06_Haziran%2F11_Haziran%2F09%2F20240629_2_64518783_102482329.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>&#8220;Hepsi birbirinden g\u00f6rerek okumaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor&#8221;<\/h3>\n<p>Tan\u00fclk\u00fc, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ndan 17&#8217;sinin \u00fcniversitede okudu\u011funu ifade ederek &#8220;Bizde b\u00fct\u00fcnlemeye kalmak yok. Hepsi birbirinden g\u00f6rerek okumaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor. B\u00fcy\u00fcklerim k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcklerin yan\u0131na gelir, onlara \u0130ngilizce ve matematik dersleri verirler.&#8221; dedi.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Benim iki desturum vard\u0131r.&#8221; diyen Tan\u00fclk\u00fc, &#8220;Hastane ile hapishaneye ne zaman d\u00fc\u015f\u00fclece\u011fi belli olmaz. Onun i\u00e7in hi\u00e7 kimse kimseyi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemesin. Cezaevindeki \u00e7ocuklar sokak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla ve sokak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 senin evindeki \u00e7ocukla ayn\u0131 parkta, ayn\u0131 sal\u0131nca\u011fa binip biz de onlar\u0131 sallarsak bu \u00fclkede bar\u0131\u015f\u0131 elde ederiz. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131ma da bunu \u00f6\u011fretiyorum.&#8221; ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Kaynak: AA<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Evlat edinmeye cezaevinde kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 1970\u2019li y\u0131llarda karar veren ve 1981\u2019de ilk \u00e7ocu\u011funa \u201cbabal\u0131k\u201d yapan tiyatro&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":77207,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[99,1,17438],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-77206","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-magazin","category-manset","category-yasam"],"views":37,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.haberegider.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77206","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.haberegider.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.haberegider.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.haberegider.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.haberegider.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=77206"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.haberegider.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77206\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":77208,"href":"https:\/\/www.haberegider.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77206\/revisions\/77208"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.haberegider.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77207"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.haberegider.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=77206"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.haberegider.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=77206"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.haberegider.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=77206"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}